It boils down to mental happiness. I will do what I like to do. But there is a little problem, not many people can do that, because they have other things to do. For living, they need to eat and sleep and they need money to ensure these needs, in other words, they have to, in some extent do some sorts of works that they don’t like but it results in earning money. These money helps build a family where other members are being prepared to be a money making tool. This is a kind of chain, and in doing so, the most important part, to be happy mentally is being ignored.
It is sufficiently important for a person to do something what he means to do from the bottom of his heart. This month, I visited Bangladesh and found some of my brothers and sisters are doing something that they don’t do for living but to be self complacent. One of my cousins in Kurigram has just completed compiling a book that would encompass a special kind of song called dohar gaan which was seen and practiced only in the northern part of Bangladesh. My own elder brother has once again started writing poems, some of which have recently been published in a daily newspaper. My sister is planning a research of compiling a dictionary of local language in the north part of Bangladesh. My cousin who is a police officer, has recently written some beautiful songs for an audio album, the album should be out by now. All these are examples of doing something that our inner mind likes to do. The people who can make it are respectable to me.